The Secrets of Success: Do Something Different Today
Creating success is acquired through the cumulative effects of experiencing new challenges and taking on risk both big and small. Even seemingly insignificant acts give us the confidence to break the mold, to escape the cycle of bad habits, boredom and mediocrity. And those little acts eventually lead to sizable ones until we one day discover that we are the individual we’ve always wanted to be.
If you’re ready to break the mold today, then…
Turn off the television. Read a book that helps you learn the secrets of success. Savor your meals with those you love and get to know one another.
Don’t waste away your day. “Killing time and boredom have no place in a successful life. You can never reclaim squandered time. Join a club or sports team. Learn a new skill. At the bare minimum, explore the world right under your nose. Take a walk and smell those roses. Life is grand.
Leave the car at home and ride a bike. You’ll never feel more free and more like a kid than on a bike. And your town suddenly becomes a different place from that new perspective.
Network with people who have acquired the success skills you’re seeking and learn from them. Websites like Facebook and LinkedIn make social networking a relative breeze.
Be spontaneous. Are you the type of person that feels most comfortable knowing well in advance of any plans? Go wild and say yes to an invitation immediately without thinking about it, regardless of whether you do or do not feel like it. Experience how liberating this feels. See something different. Drive a different route home. Get out of the office and eat lunch in the park. Escape the rat race and take a hike outdoors that you’ve never been on before. Substitute the giant corporate cinema for watching a movie in a small, art-house theater.
Don’t collect regrets. Is there a grand opportunity sitting in your lap and you’re contemplating turning it down for frivolous reasons? Why acquire a regret when you can gain the benefits instead? Be daring and ask that special someone you fancy out on a date. And really, what does it matter if you fail? You dust yourself off and move forward with confidence knowing the regret would have been much worse.
Stop giving in to illogical fears. Challenge yourself today to venture outside of your comfort zone. Nervous around others? Learn to dance. Afraid of heights? Consider skydiving (it’s not as bad as you think). Public speaking a weak spot? Join Toastmasters or another equivalent speaking club. Afraid of your own shadow? Take martial arts lessons.
Look people in the eye and smile as you interact with them throughout the day. Be genuine and watch how people positively acknowledge that simple action.
Learn one new thing to better manage your money. Better still, invest some. If you’re already investing, take an action step that helps your money work harder for you.
Make some small, adventurous steps and see how they set the stage for the great and awesome you to emerge from your cocoon. The secrets of success are yours, but only if you reach for them. All you have to do is embrace different and make a move today.